Are Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck back together amid their divorce? Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez were allegedly spotted kissing while attending brunch with their blended family on Saturday (September 14) as their divorce proceeds. According to Page Six, the former pair locked lips at the ritzy family affair, intended to be a “fun lunch so the kids could hang out.” Still, the source also revealed that the “On The Floor” hitmaker, despite being extremely hurt by the divorce situation, is attempting to be friends with her ex as not to be “selfish about it.”